Writer – Terrie Lynn

Author of "Sisters stop asking Sisters"

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Why Did I Like Him Anyway?

Feb 9

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It’s not about how to get or keep a man, but why we as women do what we do and why we like who we like. And it’s not because we’re all crazy as hell as most men would like to think!

Why Did I Like Him

Why Did I Like Him by Terrie Lynn

 

ANYBODY CAN GET A MAN……

 

There are a lot of self-help books on the market.  Books on; how to get a man, how to keep a man, books on how men think etc….  With most self-help books, there is something or at least one item you can pull from the book.

 

Most books are written according to what’s accepted by the “norm.”  And I do agree to a certain extent. There is going to be certain behavior that is acceptable by most.  What turns most guys on or what would be included in the top ten turn offs…..  Regardless to what’s accepted by the norm, there is still somebody for everybody.  So even if what you do or don’t do would be considered a major turn off in a survey of men, you can still get a man.  There is still a man out there for you.

 

A different approach!!  Maybe the key is not knowing how to get a man or keep a man, but knowing you, and why you do what you do and why you like who you like.

 

WHY DID I LIKE HIM ANYWAY!

This book is for anyone who is dating or has every dated.  Why we as women do what we do and why we like who we like, and it’s not because we’re all crazy as hell as most men would like to think……

Available on: Amazon.com, and Kindle

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THE ECONOMY AND DATING A.KA. HOT SUMMER BLUES!!

Jul 15

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Is this bad economy affecting dating and relationships? Of course it is!  You know how we women are!  A large number of us determine a man’s worth according to the amount of money he spends.

Summer Blues

Maybe it’s time to cut a guy some slack.  Yeah, you do stand a chance of getting duped!  The cheap guys who were cheap in a booming economy, now have a reason to be cheap.  But hey, you might really get to know a cool cheap guy.

There is nothing wrong with going out for drinks during the time that they offer the “drink specials.”  With the current gas prices, guys may attempt to give us women a two drink minimum, but don’t get offended.

It’s summer time; don’t start complaining because he’s taking advantage of outdoor activities. For instance, instead of going to a pricey restaurant, he may suggest a picnic in the park, hanging out by the pool, or chilling on the patio.

Look at it from a positive perspective, more “talking” and less body bumping.  Besides, it’s too damn hot for all that!  People move too fast anyway, so now you can finally get to know a guy for who he really is, the way dating should be.

Tell me what you think…

Terrie Lynn

 

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Reality check

Mar 28

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Reality for Real?

Reality for Real?

You cannot channel surf on your TV without flipping to a reality show.  Several of these shows are about house wives .  Why is there this fascination with housewives?  Some aren’t really even housewives or at least not like any I know.

These shows can be very negative, but at the same time very addictive.  Almost like watching a train wreck, not a pretty picture. But you find it hard to look away.

Why is it so captivating?  Are these women’s behavior and reactions to situations so different from ours?  Are these women on camera bringing to light how many everyday females conduct themselves or is it over the top drama that make for good ratings?

We all play out some form of drama in our lives at one time or another.  But can our drama compare with the “housewives drama”? Are these reality shows showing a true reflection of women or are they being “reality scripted” just to keep us tuned in?  It seems like we have an obsession with “cat fighting” Or is it just that we are fascinated with bitchy women with their claws out, and for some, it may make us feel better about the negative things in our own relationships?

It’s hard enough for some women to separate soap operas from reality, so what is this negative “reality female” behavior really saying to young women.  Especially when it seems like the more malicious and mean you act the more air time you get.

What makes drama so appealing?

Terrie Lynn

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Valentine Blues

Feb 14

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Broken Heart

For those of you who are in a relationship, it would be nice to do a little extra to show your love for VD, not that you shouldn’t be showing it all year. And for those of you who are not in a relationship, don’t get all sad and emotional, remember, this is a made up holiday, but you might want to shy away from the malls and restaurants.

Especially Victoria Secret. (that spot was a zoo yesterday!)

The hearts and candies will be everywhere and hard to avoid, but you should remember that it Valentine’s day is about LOVE not just your significant other.  So instead of lingerie and pink edible underwear, try your local bakery!   Pick up some red velvet cupcakes or really show your love and make your own with candy hearts on top.  Whatever you choose remember, doing something to make a loved one smile will take your mind off of any V-Day Blues that might arise.  So taking out time to tell someone (anyone) you love how much they mean to you.

Your Valentine can also be your kid, a best friend, or anyone of value in your life.

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Less Than A Minute

Feb 5

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Terrie Lynn for NottHeads – Chokkklit Shop

It takes less than a minute to decide if I really want to get in it:

It starts with a glance, then to a stare; I look her down, and up; from her toes to her hair.  Pants or skirt, it does not matter, I’m about to get with this chitter chatter.  Crude and sometime crass, but be real, I’m trying to get that…

One minute

The fury of questions start in rapid succession

  1. Do I want to hit that?
  2. What do you think she’s like in bed?
  3. Does she have on a ring?
  4. Has she noticed me yet?
  5. How much work is it going to take to get that?
  6. Is the prize worth the effort?

If at least 5 of the 6 questions, excluding the ring (go to Plan B), come back positive, then I’ll approach.  What I might say, I have no set rule.  I check the elements, think of something clever, and then make my move.  This takes less than a minute!

Plan B- if the circumstances mean this really is not my chance to let her know how I feel then, you smile say a polite “Hello, hope you’re having a nice day” and let it marinate for a future possibility.

Some women try to play it off; like they don’t know what a man is thinking when they’re running through their own list of questions.  Attraction is natural and animalistic but that’s how we’re wired, it’s supposes to be like that.  So why all the confusion, stop the allusion that it’s about his money, his career, or his status; if you like what you see then greet me with the attitude of “you can have this if you’re willing to work for it.”  It takes less than a minute.

By Da Dude.

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